What happens when those babies die? Particularly when it's the only child.
People are very quick to tell Jon and me that we're still parents. And while technically we agree, we don't, really.
You see, we don't want to be parents on a technicality.
Yes, we had a baby. HAD. We are not parenting. We don't live our lives catering to a baby; we don't HAVE a baby.
I may be a mother, but I am not mothering.
Jon is a father. But he isn't fathering.
We are parents on a technicality. And that just sucks.